and hubby is coming on fri to MEET ME
yeappie..cant wait for him to book out.
im counting down the days =)
Hello =)
Hubby bought me a scrump pouch and
a Hello Kitty pouch for me.And its lovely.
Anw,
TOday is marina barrage outing with Joel,xinyi,hubby and ME!
Meet hubby at white sand and then
We head down to EHUB to buy sushi and tibits
and i got to drink Coffebean Coffee..YUMMy~~
We then traveled to Marina Barrage.
Xin Yi and joel meet us there as they were late.
we had also failed to get our kites fly up in the sky LOL
so we end up taking photos.
And joel and HUBBY chat about their army stuff.
We went Shokudo to had our dinner.
Theres lots of variety of food lol.Many choices.Yummy~
After eating,Headed home.
And i wish that there will be more outing for hubby and i.
View more photos:
i'm craving for Starbucks
MOCHA FRAPPUCINNO AGAIN=X
Dear lets have it on sat k?YOUR TREAT (:
PR2 is next Fri and there's so much things to do
Here's the list of things left to do:
* PowerPoint slides
* Project description in frame
*Replacing voice in NVDA
*Compressing twitter in Iframe
*Publish in Web
I hope that friends around me are true.
& to friends around me:
i'm here to give you a listening ear
when you r down or troubled.
And most importantly,
i love you,Mr Commando
And im happy to receive many many sms
from you again after your rifle shooting training.
Had nightmare after watching 4bia yesterday.
now having eyes bags plus im sick.
so i'm look like a zombie LOL.
anw, i received dear's sms during midnight.
it makes my day =) again.
but i totally miss him badly.
And, im craving for rainbow macaroons.
anyone treat me??
A very touching story i saw in facebook...
When I got home that night as my wife served dinner,
I held her hand and said, I've got something to tell you.
She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.
Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth.
Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth.
But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce.
I raised the topic calmly.
She didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why?
I avoided her question. This made her angry.
She didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why?
I avoided her question. This made her angry.
She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man!
That night, we didn't talk to each other. She was weeping.
I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage.
But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Jane.
I didn't love her anymore. I just pitied her!
With a deep sense of guilt,
With a deep sense of guilt,
I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car,
and 30% stake of my company.
She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces.
She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces.
The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger.
I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy
but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Jane so dearly.
Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see.
To me her cry was actually a kind of release.
The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.
The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table.
The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table.
I didn't have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast
because I was tired after an eventful day with Jane.
When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing.
When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing.
I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.
In the morning she presented her divorce conditions:
In the morning she presented her divorce conditions:
she didn't want anything from me, but needed a month's notice before the divorce.
She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible.
Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month's time
and she didn't want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.
This was agreeable to me. But she had something more,
This was agreeable to me. But she had something more,
she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day.
She requested that every day for the month's duration
She requested that every day for the month's duration
I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning.
I thought she was going crazy.
Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.
I told Jane about my wife's divorce conditions. .
I told Jane about my wife's divorce conditions. .
She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd.
No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce,
she said scornfully.
My wife and I hadn't had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed.
My wife and I hadn't had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed.
So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy.
Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mommy in his arms.
His words brought me a sense of pain.
From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door,
I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly;
don't tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside
the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.
On the second day, both of us acted much more easily.
the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.
On the second day, both of us acted much more easily.
She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse.
I realized that I hadn't looked at this woman carefully for a long time.
I realized she was not young any more.
There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying!
Our marriage had taken its toll on her.
For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.
On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning.
On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning.
This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me.
On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again.
On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again.
I didn't tell Jane about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by.
Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger.
She was choosing what to wear one morning.
She was choosing what to wear one morning.
She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one.
Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger.
I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily.
Suddenly it hit me... she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart.
Suddenly it hit me... she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart.
Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head.
Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it's time to carry mom out.
Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it's time to carry mom out.
To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life.
My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly.
I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute.
I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway.
Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally.
I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day.
But her much lighter weight made me sad.
But her much lighter weight made me sad.
On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step.
Our son had gone to school.
I held her tightly and said, I hadn't noticed that our life lacked intimacy.
I drove to office.... jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door.
I drove to office.... jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door.
I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind...I walked upstairs.
Jane opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Jane, I do not want the divorce anymore.
She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever?
She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever?
She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Jane, I said, I won't divorce.
My marriage life was boring probably because she
and I didn't value the details of our lives, not because we didn't love each other anymore.
Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day
I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart.
Jane seemed to suddenly wake up.
Jane seemed to suddenly wake up.
She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears.
I walked downstairs and drove away.
At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife.
At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife.
The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card.
I smiled and wrote, I'll carry you out every morning until death do us apart.
That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face,
That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face,
I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed - dead.
My wife had been fighting CANCER for months and I was so busy with Jane to even notice.
My wife had been fighting CANCER for months and I was so busy with Jane to even notice.
She knew that she would die soon and she wanted to save me
from the whatever negative reaction from our son, in case we push thru with the divorce
.-- At least, in the eyes of our son--- I'm a loving husband....
The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship.
The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship.
It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank.
These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves.
So find time to be your spouse's friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy.
Do have a real happy marriage!
The story teach us to cherish our loves one.
ok ok back to me. i'm happy.I received an good night sms at 1.45am ..its after his training.And i didnt expect cos dear said 3 days cant sms.but once i received,i damn happy=)
Wish my dear BF can send me morning text,
when i wake up,first thing i see is him,
and then he kiss and hug me.
Wish he fills my life with surprises.
And then night time,
he could kiss me and hug me to sleep.
Anw,3 days not messaging him, its like killing me.
Hope the 3 days faster end.
Days left: 3 (Dear quick quick sms me once 3 days )
Its a brand new day in a brand new week.
i want to enjoy so i must be happy.LOL.
so i shall not stress myself up.
but i guess i still have to do my work.
if we just gonna Facebook or do other things
and not do anything to our project,
we just gonna repeat another Semester.
or should we just gonna repeat?
it only DEPENDS on US. (:
Early in the morning, i head down to Tamp library
to meet the L.I.F.E for the SAVH donation drive.
And oh well the foreigners or the PRS
basically didnt want to donate.
Come our country snatch job then have salary
yet ask then for a little donation they just walk away.
Anyway,manage to get quite lots of money.
After that, went to Tamp mall Swensens for lunch
and also to celebrate Zhi Xin's birthday.
The people going are JiaQi,ZhiXin, one girl,
Yongqiang,Brandon, Xuan le,Yoshi,Davin and Matthew
and im broke.like seriously broke.
Had fun in swensens cos
xuanle, yoshi and matthew DAMN FUNNY.
we laugh and laugh and laugh.
Celebrate zhixin's birthday with a
Stitch cookies and cream ice cream cake
So nice la =X ..envy!!where my birthday cake dear?=(
anyway went back home after lunched cos im tired.
Plus dear having guard duty today so noone to webcam
and i miss him la...2 months plus have passed..
and i still have 1 year 9 months plus to wait for him till ORD.
hope he faster ORD sia..
Read this touching story from my friend's post
so i'm posting it here:
A BF gave a challenge to his GF to live a day without him
with no communications at all & if she passed it,
he would love her forever.
The GF agreed, they did not contact.
Without knowing that her BF has only 24 hours to live,
she excitedly went to her BF's house the next day,
..tears fall as she saw her BF in the coffin.
...
With a note on the side that wrote;
"You did it baby, can you do it everyday? I love you."
A BF gave a challenge to his GF to live a day without him
with no communications at all & if she passed it,
he would love her forever.
The GF agreed, they did not contact.
Without knowing that her BF has only 24 hours to live,
she excitedly went to her BF's house the next day,
..tears fall as she saw her BF in the coffin.
...
With a note on the side that wrote;
"You did it baby, can you do it everyday? I love you."
The rest are written in private post.
want to know what is it?guess my password.
if not,too bad and bye.(:
